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Dr. Mikey, Therapy Dog

Our dogs bring us solace and no matter how we feel or how ill we may be, the dog is the one animal that can swim across the psychic moat and trot right inside our heart and soul. They intuitively know us in a way humans cannot given their special sense about our psychological and physical needs. The clinical literature on dogs as agents of healing is vast. Boris Levinson, an American Child Psychiatrist, coined the phrase pet therapy in 1964, following observations he made when he began to use his dog, Jingles in his sessions with severely withdrawn children. I could write book on this subject since my dogs have always been my co- therapists since I spend the majority of time working in an office in my house learning from many of my canine colleagues invaluable insights. One woman who my English Setter, Willard adored came in one day and would not stop berating herself for not being a better mother and hoping she had not made irreparable mistakes after a nasty divorce. Willard stood by her chair and the more she criticized herself, he would bat her with his paw until it became so noticeable that she asked me, Why Is Willard hitting me with his paw? I found the scene quite amusing and knew at some point given Willards persistence batting her every time she spoke of her lack of self worth that my client who also owned two English Setters would finally break down and notice his peculiar behavior. I replied, Willard loves you and by the tone of your voice knows you are being very unkind to yourself. He will not stop communicating through physical action until you stop your self criticism. At first, my client looked at me in disbelief and could not believe that Willard was communicating to her despite his usual position on my couch upside down with all four legs straight up in the air. I always knew sessions were going well when he went to sleep in this position alerting me that he felt relaxed about how well the session was progressing and I could do all the work. Today was his work day and despite my comment, the client continued to list all the things she felt she had done to break up her marriage and damage her child. With each comment, Willards physical reminders became more pronounced, and although he would never hurt her, he made sure she knew her berating herself would result in a quick paw smack to her closest thigh. Obviously, we were not making any progress as she continued to describe herself as the most consummate failure of a mother in this century. I asked her if we could talk about the impact of the divorce on her son without her harsh and angry critique to see if Willard would stop his disruptive and insistent pawing. She agreed and began to express deeper feelings about her fear about her sons welfare and her rage at his fathers lack of attendance to his sons needs. As she explored deeper issues affecting her mood, Willard went back to his cozy position on the couch and finally fell into a deep peaceful sleep. As I said, examples of my dogs as therapists are numerous and like Boris Levinson, I had an experience with a child who was selectively mute. She stopped talking to adults although occasionally she would speak to her very few friends. Again Willard came to the rescue. If children were ever afraid of dogs, this would change after meeting my sweet, loving and dopey looking partner. At first, my little client would only talk to Willard telling him about her shyness and pain of isolation in her family and in school. It was amazing how open she was with him completely ignoring me without a greeting or a goodbye. I was the conduit in which she could speak because of my intuitive and very special dog. The most poignant story involves my dog Mikey who you see in his photo looking depressed and in a deep state of despair. For many years, Mikey was a therapy dog working with children on the Oncology Ward at Children's hospital. He has a staff badge with his cute freckled face that says, this staff member must be admitted to the hospital at all times. The only think he lacked was a beeper or cell phone that would alert him to the condition of the forty kids he related to in the recreation room every Monday. It is amazing how intuitive this breed is. I have been told that bird dogs have amazing memories since they must remember where that bird was when it was time to do their dog work. There were times in the intensive care unit that Mikey would point to a whirling machine that looked like a bird and we explained that although he seemed human, he also was bred for another purpose. Mikey knew how to selectively relate to each child. For those that were frightened he would simply sit quietly in front of them until they felt comfortable petting him and for many who called him Freckles he would lie on their laps and be allowed in their rooms to comfort them when they had a difficult day due to chemotherapy of the ravages of their disease. The kids were troopers. They were brave, rarely complaining and always in great spirits on the day Freckles visited them. His pictures were all over the walls of the unit and with the help of a child, we made a coloring book of Mikey so the kids would have their own special drawing of him on the days when other therapy dogs would arrive. Mikey knew every child in the recreation room and if one was missing, he knew he or she had passed over what was referred as the rainbow bridge. He would come home despondent and would not eat for two days after the loss of one of his kids. One evening I got a call that a young boy requested that Mikey come to his bedside at Childrens Hospital. He was seven and had told the doctors and his parents that he knew they had done all they could for him and there was only one living creature that could help him now, Mikey, his precious red haired freckled friend. He told his doctors sensing he would not make it through the night that he wanted to hold Mikeys paw until he passed over to the other side. In graduate school I had a close friend who worked as a Psychologist on a Cancer ward and wrote her dissertation on the dreams of children who had Cancer. She was urgent to change the policy not to tell children they were dying. This disturbed her greatly since she recorded their dreams that reflected that they knew they were dying and would not live much longer. If Elaine could hear the doctors and parents whispering in the halls, she knew that the kids also could hear the grim news. Until the regulation was changed, the children who were not told had a much harder time dealing with their disease and having the opportunity to pass away in a more peaceful way. Kids know these things and it is a disservice to be untruthful since what is imagined can be much more difficult to handle, especially when children are all alone knowing the truth about their fate. Elaine was the only one who talked to them about their illness learning about their fears and noting the difference in their behavior when the no tell policy existed. Due to the open policy of childrens hospital, Mikey's little boy was able to call him for assistance and as he was asked, Mikey held the small boys hand throughout the night until this brave child eased into a coma and died early the next morning. Dr. Mikey as he is still referred to never moved knowing how important he was and although he could not change the length of his life, there is no doubt he made his death very peaceful with the tender touch of his warm paw also helping the parents deal with the grief of losing their beloved child.

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Anonymous Guest 27 Jan 2011

Julie you have the best mind heart insight and resourcefulness that I am near speechless. I would turn inside out if you ever changed!!!

Jerry Hanks 31 Aug 2007

Thank you! Willard may be the only therapist anyone could need. If they would listen. Or hear what they are listening to. Your thoughts of me are deeply felt in my spirit and it is good.

Michael Forbus 24 Aug 2007

I love the topic that you are working on in this lovely photograph and find the results that Willard had with the woman that was berating herself. They do have such a lovely sense of psychic pain in others and selfless love. A great dissertation again and I will write you privately on my thoughts later. My devoted affection to a fellow scholar of life. Michael

Artist Reply: Remarkable comments from a dear and devoted friend with the rare wisdom rarely found in a kindred spirit. As always, I am deeply touched by your extraordinary and deeply meaningful comments.

Meg Murray 23 Aug 2007

Julie...You are my inspiration...........................................this is the most life changing photo....your friendship is priceless...MEG

Artist Reply: I am very touched by your sentiments Meg. I wish we could find a Mikey in human form to heal all the pain that good souls suffer and the profound troubles that plague our planet. Where is the bridge over troubled water when we need it the most? That is a quote from Mikey (lol).

Brenda Loveless 16 Jul 2007

oh my...heartwrenching and heartwarming simultaneously...thank you for sharing this with us mere mortals along for the journey; excellent message, julie ~

Artist Reply: Thanks Brenda for your loving remarks. Dogs are remarkable as healers and Dr. Mikey is especially sensitive to the needs of others. You probably will enjoy a recent photo I posted of the doctor in scrubs.

Alberto D'Assumpcao 15 Jul 2007

Fantastic shot, Julie!!! Seems Dr. Mikey takes seriously his job!!!

Mark Peterson 14 Jul 2007

Awesome story Julie...nothing comforts us like the love of mans best friend. Often what animals do for us is beyond words.

Artist Reply: I have raised dogs all my life and I agree with you 100%. Animals don't need words to express their love and devotion. I wish I could say the same about the humans who they trust.

Laurie Rawdon 14 Jul 2007

Hello Mikey!!! So pleased to finally meet you!!! Julie are the dogs affected emotionally with the therapy as in the case of the child like the rescue dogs are? It's my understanding that it is very hard for those dogs when they can't make a rescue...is it ok for your dogs as long as they are able to give comfort? At work here at the police station the people who walk by in the park refer to me as the "cookie lady" because of the dog cookies I keep here for the dogs to come so I can meet them. LOL I can tell you that especially during a stressful day those little wagging tails and beautiful faces make the stress melt from my body.

Artist Reply: Laurie, As you know dogs are very emotional beings and it depends on the sensitivity of the dog how he or she will respond when they can't make a rescue or in Mikey's case suffers from depression when he knows of the the kids have passed away. Dogs have to go through a training program through the Delta Society to be chosen to work in hospital settings with kids and other therapeutic facilities. Golden Retrivers and Labs are used most often, but Mikey was a perfect fit due to his gentle and loving nature. The difference in your job is the dog's know they have not succeeded in their heroic rescue attempt and will react like a sensitive human to the loss and failure of their mission. In Mikey's case as you noted, he is offering his support and love to these children and the issue of rescue is not his role. Dogs are used in many facilities like nursing homes and studies have shown that elderly people who are visited by or can have a dog of their own live longer and with more quality of life given the emotional attachment between Dogs and their devotion to the people who love them. Also, Mikey worked in a neuological facility with 100 adults who were there due to stoke or brain injury. As in many facilities that use therapy dogs, comforting the residents and improving their quality of life is their goal. The results of scientific studies show that animals, particularily dogs can improve morale and communication , bolster self confidence and self-esteem and increase the quality of life for those fortunate enough to be in pet-facilitated therapeutic settings. In a study in a Psychiatric Unit, fifty patients were allowed to choose a dog from a nearby kennel and interact with it at appointed hours. Only three left the program and the remaining forty-seven showed marked improvement;the dogs acted as a social catalyst, forging a positive link between patients and staff;patients reported increased self respect and independence. The evidence in nursing home residents are very impressive and after evaluating facilities across the country, the residents were rated as happier, more alert and responsive;they laughed more often and displayed more optimism about life. Study after study has supported the findings of how dogs have an instintive sense for their owner's needs and in addition to family and friends, dogs provide a crucial link in recovery. Patients are impacted greatly by their bond with us reflecting the power of our connections with our animals. I have read many books and studies that speak to the profound satisfaction of living with a dog and the therapeutic properties of their mere presence. You don't have to be ill or in a therapeutic facility to appreciate the impact our devoted best friends have on our lives. I imagine the dogs that can't make the rescue working with Police feel very much like the officers who also often put their life in jeopardy to save a life. Animals are sentient and loving creatures and have been wonderful companions to man for centuries making life on this planet more bearable in times of need. It is so imperative that we do everything we can to protect and preserve their precious lives. Keep filling up that cookie jar!

bianca 14 Jul 2007

awsome story...wow....such a great dog...

Joanna Jungjohann 14 Jul 2007

YOU MADE ME CRY, JULIE SAN,.I LOVE YOU GREAT PIECE

Artist Reply: I also cried while I was writing it. When Molly is older, she will make a great therapy dog in facilities for the elderly. There are some now that allow the residents to live with animals that has been proven to extend longevity and quality of life. I know the intense emotional void I would feel without a dog or dogs as my companions. Even petting a dog reduces blood pressure and aids humans with physical and emotional problems. There is one wonderful program I read about where abused children and animals are paired living together and through their bond both humans and animals recover from the unimaginable treatment we as humans are capable of inflicting on children and our beloved animals.